By: Chandra

There is so much good stuff here – I was going to pull out a couple of quotes but I’d just end up rewriting half the post.

One thing that works really well for me personally is to start from a place of understanding that there are no guarantees in life, and that includes in love. You might get one really fun night with a person or you might get a lifetime, and every individual connection brings its own joys and lessons. When I can get into this headspace it allows me to appreciate things in the moment more, and not feel the pressures of over-attachment or expectations, which generally ends up making things easier and more fun for all involved.